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Articles - Alcohol, Drug & Other Addictions

Change Your Drinking Habits

Prescription Drug Abuse

Marijuana Addiction

Am I Addicted?

Sudafed Abuse?

Alcohol: Know the Facts

Are you a Co-dependent Person?



CHANGE YOUR DRINKING HABITS  (July 2007)

Results from a recent national survey: almost a third of adult Americans have had a problem with alcohol abuse or alcohol dependence at some point in their lives. The average age for drinking problems to develop is 22, yet there’s a lag of about 10 years before these individuals seek help – and then only about 30% of them receive treatment (10% of the adult population).

What this data tells me is that first, there are a lot of people out there with drinking problems, especially within the 18 – 30 age group. (This is probably not news to many of you!) Second, most of these folks either don’t think they have a problem, or don’t go into rehab or AA, at least not until things get a lot worse. But I wonder about the 20% or so of people who report alcohol problems, yet apparently don’t ever get help: since we know there aren’t that many actual alcoholics out there, it suggests that most of these folks resolved their problem on their own.


Indeed, in my experience, most people who drink too much or have problems related to drinking resolve them by learning to moderate their drinking. For some, it only takes one time to learn the lesson, especially if there’s a negative consequence that follows, like getting a DUI. Others may experience a lot of alcohol-related problems before deciding to change their drinking behavior.

In my practice I see many adults who have unhealthy habits around alcohol use - for example, drinking right before bedtime, or gulping their drinks, or consuming large quantities (whether a nightly bottle of wine, or a 12-pack of beer every weekend). While they don't view themselves as having a drinking problem, they may complain of other problems - like insomnia, weight gain, irritability, fatigue or lack of energy - which they're surprised to hear may be caused by their drinking habits. But once they change those habits, often the other problems go away.

 

 

Teaching people how to moderate or control their drinking, or to otherwise exchange unhealthy drinking habits for healthier ones, is an approach that is receiving wider acceptance among health professionals who treat alcohol problems. Interventions which focus on harm reduction, i.e. reducing the risks of harm or negative consequences from drinking, as well as cutting down on overall alcohol consumption, have been proven to be effective for many people.

In one of the most effective programs, Behavioral Self-Control Training, participants learn to slow their rate of drinking, figure out what triggers the desire to drink (e.g. stress, social anxiety) and explore alternatives to achieve a similar effect (e.g. relaxation) without drinking. They also set specific goals for how much and how often they will drink, and monitor their drinking. On average, following the BSCT program results in a reduction in drinking by 30 to 50 percent.For more information about BSCT, read “Controlling Your Drinking” by Miller and Munoz. There are also a number of websites and self-help programs for people who want to change their drinking habits. A good place to start is http://www2.potsdam.edu/hansondj/DrinkTooMuch.html

However, controlled drinking is not for everyone! Those most likely to succeed have had mild to moderate alcohol-related problems for less than 10 years, and are not physically dependent.


PRESCRIPTION DRUG ABUSE  (October 2006)

It seems everyone has an opinion about NFL star Terrell Owens’ recent drug overdose (was it accidental, as he claims, or a suicide attempt related to a relationship break-up, or just another attention-grabbing stunt?) but the facts are these: he had recently had surgery for an injury, was prescribed a popular pain reliever, Vicodin, and he took more than the prescribed dose, enough to give the police cause to take him to the hospital.

Could he have taken enough pills to kill himself, accidentally or not? Most definitely, given the amount in the bottle he had. In fact, his celebrity status makes this news, but the real news is that prescription painkillers like his cause more lethal drug overdoses than either cocaine or heroin. U. S. emergency room records show that from 1990 to 2002 the mortality rate from “unintentional drug poisoning” increased by more than 200 percent. Most of those deaths involved middle-aged men.

The non-medical use and abuse of prescription medications, particularly pain relievers, has reached an unprecedented level in our society. Results of a 2004 national survey indicate that about 6 million Americans age 12 and older, which represents 2.5 percent of the population, used prescription medications for non-medical purposes.

Abuse of prescription drugs is a serious problem among teens seeking a new “high” (9% of 12 graders report use of Vicodin without a prescription, and 5% report using Oxycontin, a powerful prescription opiate drug) and is increasing among the elderly, who are more likely to forget or get confused about how many or which of their many different medications they’ve taken.

Two relatively recent phenomena have contributed to this crisis: first, there is a new trend among doctors to treat chronic pain more aggressively, with stronger medications and higher doses, due to a growing recognition that pain impedes recovery from illness. Potent new drugs like Oxycontin are showing up in home medicine cabinets throughout the country, and are also being "diverted" to the street where they may be sold for $50-80 a pill.

The other phenomenon is occurring through the Internet, where anyone with a credit card can purchase unlimited quantities of almost any medication they desire, without having to see a doctor to obtain a legitimate prescription, and without any monitoring. And if that isn't dangerous enough, many of these "Internet pharmacies" are not FDA-approved, and may be selling medications that are counterfeit, outdated or improperly manufactured.

All prescription painkillers and tranquilizers have the potential for abuse/addiction (despite what some doctors and most ads will tell you). When used as prescribed, the risk of addiction is fairly low, however tolerance does develop over time, resulting in decreased effectiveness. These medications are most effective when used for short periods of time (e.g. after surgery), or on an infrequent basis (e.g. for occasional panic attacks or insomnia).

"Best practices" for use include: a) start with the smallest dose and increase gradually, b) in-form your doctor promptly if a medication doesn't seem to be working, c) monitor your meds to prevent unauthorized use/theft, d) never give someone else medication prescribed for you, and e) know the signs of abuse and addiction.


MARIJUANA ADDICTION
 (May 2006)

A recent article in the Wall Street Journal reports on a growing trend: people seeking treatment for addiction to marijuana. About 16% of people entering substance abuse treatment programs in 2003 cited marijuana as their primary problem, as compared with just 7% ten years earlier.

The article also noted the recent publication of a new book called “Cannabis Dependence”, which contains the results of over two decades of research on whether marijuana is addictive. This research confirms what those of us who treat substance abuse problems have known for years: yes, marijuana can be addictive!

The studies show that about 10% of those who try it will become addicted. This puts marijuana at about the same addictive potential as alcohol – although, among daily marijuana users, the rate of addiction is significantly higher than among those who drink alcohol daily.

One of the likely explanations for the increase in people addicted to marijuana is that the potency of the drug has increased dramatically over the years. According to Dr. David Smith, Medical Director of the Haight Ashbury Clinic, the marijuana sold on the street today is about ten times stronger than what was available in 1967, when the Clinic was founded. Anyone who smoked pot back in the 70’s may have a hard time believing that marijuana is addictive, for the simple reason that the quality of the drug they used was far inferior to the quality today.

Another reason people may not view marijuana as addictive is that they don’t see marijuana use leading to the same serious consequences that drugs like cocaine and heroin, even alcohol, can cause: loss of jobs, relationships, health, even lives. However, it is not nearly as harmless as many people would have you believe.

In my practice, I have seen clients who use marijuana on a daily or near daily basis, and may not perceive they have a problem with it, yet they have come to counseling because they feel “stuck” in some aspect of their lives, and don’t know why: maybe their jobs or relationships aren’t going well, or they may feel anxious, stressed, or depressed for no obvious reason.

Often these vague feelings of dissatisfaction with their lives can be traced to the effects of the marijuana, and usually these clients are quite surprised to discover that, if they stop using it for awhile, the anxiety or depression is gone, replaced by a renewed energy and sense of purpose.

Other clients have been surprised to find out how difficult it is for them to stop using, as they experience the effects of withdrawal: increased irritability and anxiousness; difficulty sleeping, relaxing or concentrating; as well as headaches or other physical aches and pains. Many people are also surprised to learn how strong the cravings for the drug can be, and for how long the cravings may persist – all signs that yes indeed, they had become addicted.

Resources for Marijuana Addiction

If you are concerned that you or someone you care about may have a marijuana addiction:

  • For info on treatment programs in California: www.adp.cahwnet.gov
  • Or call the nation-wide Substance Abuse Treatment Hotline at (800) 662-HELP
  • Look into joining a support group like Marijuana Anonymous - check their website for meeting locations (www.marijuana-anonymous.org)


AM I ADDICTED? (August 2005)

Clients sometimes ask me this question, as we’re discussing their drinking habits or drug use. Or they’ll answer it themselves, saying something like “Yeah, I’ve got a problem, but I don’t think I’m addicted to it,” as if that’s an important distinction. “You’re asking the wrong question,” I’ll respond. The important question is, “Has your drinking (or drug use) caused any problems in your life?”

For example, have your friends or family members complained about it? Has it led to misunderstandings or conflicts in your relationships? Have you done or said things while under the influence that you’ve seriously regretted later? Has your use led to financial, legal or health problems? Have you broken promises, to yourself or others, due to your use? If you can answer “yes” to even one of these questions, then it’s a problem.

Two things interfere with most people being able to recognize if they are addicted to a substance: 1) lack of knowledge about what addiction is, and 2) an understandable unwillingness to admit that they may not be in control of their life. No one wants to admit that they can’t always control their behavior, let alone consider the idea that they might be an alcoholic or an addict.

So I tell clients it’s not necessary to answer the question: if you know you drink too much, either sometimes or all the time, you don’t need to decide whether or not you’re an alcoholic – you just need to accept that drinking has become a problem for you, and be willing to do something about it. The same goes for a problem with drugs, whether illegal or prescription – or cigarettes, caffeine, sugar, gambling, work, sex or anger (all things that people can get addicted to).

If your honest answer is “yes, it’s causing problems in my life”, then my advice is to do something, now. You can try to cut down on your own, or try substituting a healthier habit, like exercise. If that works, great! If it doesn’t, then it’s time to seek help:

  • Ask your doctor for a referral
  • Call your company's EAP
  • Go to a “12-Step” meeting, like AA
  • Call the Substance Abuse Treatment Hotline at (800) 662-HELP
  • Find out what programs are in your area through findtreatment.samhsa.gov
  • Contact me for an evaluation or referrals

By the way, the official diagnostic criteria for addiction are: 1) tolerance, that is, you need to consume increasingly more of the substance to achieve the desired effect; 2) withdrawal symptoms (physical and/or psychological) when you stop using; and 3) a pattern of compulsive behavior involving the substance. Because signs of tolerance and withdrawal aren’t always present, or obvious, it’s best to focus on the behavior.

Such behaviors might include consuming more than you intended to, sneaking or lying about your use, planning your day around when you get to use, and giving up activities or friendships that interfere with using. Making lots of rules for yourself about when and where you can use, or repeated but unsuccessful efforts to cut down or stop using, are also behaviors that point to a probable addiction.


SUDAFED ABUSE? (April 2005)

Have you bought any Sudafed recently? Did the drugstore clerk ask for your ID, or were you told you needed a doctor’s prescription? No, of course not – but that scenario could happen under a proposed federal law. Several states, including Oregon, have already enacted laws which restrict the sale of Sudafed and similar cold or allergy medicines. The reason? To try to curb the growing problem of methamphetamine abuse.

These cold and allergy products contain pseudoephedrine, which can be “cooked” down in a relatively simple process to produce the illegal drug. About 20 percent of the meth available today in the U.S. comes from small “labs” in someone’s home or garage (the rest is made in large quantities by “superlabs” in Mexico, Canada and elsewhere).

Whether or not you agree with the idea of restricting pseudoephedrine sales, you’ve got to admit that methamphetamine abuse has become an epidemic. In a recent survey by the National Institute on Drug Abuse, 12 million Americans admitted that they have used meth. A recent article in the SF Chronicle described two groups of meth users that might surprise you: employees of high tech companies in Silicon Valley, and suburban “soccer moms”. Middle school and high school students are also at risk, because meth is cheap and easily obtained.

What attracts people to methamphetamine are its initial effects: increased energy and alertness, decreased appetite, and an enhanced sense of well-being. As a stimulant, it is similar to cocaine and to legal amphetamines like Dexadrine, however meth is far more dangerous. This is because it can’t be metabolized very well, so it stays in the body much longer and continues to damage brain and nerve cells.

Meth (also known as “speed”, “crank”, “ice” or “crystal”) is extremely addictive, because it acts on the neurotransmitter dopamine, which is sometimes referred to as the “pleasure center” of the brain. However, long-term use ultimately leads to the inability to experience pleasure, as both dopamine and seratonin cells are destroyed.

Symptoms of methamphetamine use can include increased anxiety or depression, anger, violent behavior, mental confusion, insomnia, weight loss, and acne. Chronic abuse can actually cause psychotic behavior, characterized by intense paranoia, visual and auditory hallucinations, and out-of-control rages. Chronic abusers may also develop attention and memory problems as well as Parkinson’s-like tremors.

Meth addiction is difficult to treat, and even low-dose users tend to have a very hard time quitting. Most treatment professionals recommend a combination of cognitive-behavioral therapy, nutritional supplements, and participation in a “12-step” support group for at least a year, as that’s how long it typically takes for the cravings to stop and the brain to return to some semblance of normal. The good news: recent research has shown that at least some meth-induced brain damage is reversible.

For more information about methamphetamine abuse and treatment, contact the National Clearinghouse for Alcohol and Drug Information at 1-800-729-6686, go to the website for the National Institute on Drug Abuse (www.nida.nih.gov), or call me!


ALCOHOL: KNOW THE FACTS (August 2004)

August is the most dangerous month for drinking and driving, according to a report just released by the Automobile Club of Southern California, which analyzed state-wide data for the past five years. More Californians are injured or killed in alcohol-related collisions during August than in any other month. The obvious explanation: summer vacations and outdoor recreational activities, which often include drinking.

Indeed, this is the time of year when most of us look forward to some time to kick back and relax for awhile, whether at the beach, the lake, or some other vacation destination. And relaxing is associated with drinking for many adults (and too many teens and kids!)

Trips to emergency rooms, court, and the cemetery rarely come to mind as we kick back and share good times with friends and family over a few beers or a pitcher of margaritas. Yet that may be the outcome if you drink and drive, or get into a car, boat or other vehicle with an intoxicated person, or are unlucky enough to be in the path of a drunk driver.

How to avoid such a scenario in your life? First, know the facts about alcohol and alcohol abuse:

  1. For most adults, moderate alcohol use--up to two drinks per day for men and one drink per day for women and older people--causes few if any problems. There is no “safe” level of drinking for pregnant women, people under 21, recovering alcoholics, or those taking certain medications.
  2. “One drink” is defined as: a 12 oz. beer, a 5-oz. glass of wine, or a 1.5 oz. shot of hard liquor. When you’re pouring drinks, do you measure?
  3. Women become more impaired than men do after drinking the same amount of alcohol, even when differences in body weight are taken into account. This is because women's bodies have less water than men's bodies, and their metabolism is different.
  4. The ability to “drink everyone else under the table” is an early sign of alcoholism.
  5. It takes about an hour for the body to metabolize one drink, in other words for the alcohol to get out of your bloodstream and into your bladder. However, impairment is greatest in the second half of the hour – and if you’re drinking at a faster rate than one drink an hour, you will get more impaired, and stay impaired longer.
  6. Drinking coffee won’t sober you up any faster – you’ll just be an alert drunk!
  7. You do get drunk faster on an empty stomach – also if you haven’t slept well the night before; if you’re taking certain medications; if you’re premenstrual; or if you’re over 65.
  8. While it's believed that small amounts of alcohol (one drink with dinner) may help protect against heart disease by reducing the risk of blood clots in the arteries, you can achieve the same health benefit from a low-fat diet with plenty of fruits and vegetables.
  9. Heavy drinking increases the risk of heart failure, stroke, and high blood pressure.
  10. The cost of a first-time DUI is estimated at over $12,000: this includes fines, DMV fees, legal fees, the increase in car insurance, and alcohol education classes.

So have a safe and healthy summer – don’t drink and drive, or get into a vehicle with someone who has been drinking or seems drunk. And if you are the host, don’t allow any guest who has been drinking to drive home. For more information about alcohol abuse, go to www.niaaa.nih.gov - or call me!


ARE YOU A CO-DEPENDENT PERSON? (May 2004)

It has been said that every person with an alcohol or drug abuse problem affects the lives of at least four other people: their spouse or partner, parents, children, co-workers, friends. Just as alcoholism tends to run in families, children who grow up with an alcoholic or addict are far more likely to fall in love with, marry, or go to work for another addicted person. What do we mean by co-dependent behavior?

  1. We feel responsible for other people’s feelings, thoughts, actions, choices, wants, needs and well being.
  2. We tend to “stuff” our feelings, or have lost the ability to feel or express our feelings.
  3. It is easier for us to be concerned with others rather than ourselves. This in turn has allowed us to neglect our own needs and ignore our own shortcomings.
  4. We say “yes”, even when we want to say “no”. We experience guilt feelings when we stand up for ourselves instead of giving in to others.
  5. We judge ourselves harshly, and have a low sense of self-esteem.
  6. We have difficulty trusting people and developing intimacy in our relationships.
  7. We confuse love and pity, and tend to “love” people we can pity and rescue.
  8. We are terrified of abandonment. We will do anything to hold on to a relationship in order not to experience painful abandonment feelings which we may have received from living with people who were never there emotionally for us.
  9. We take life too seriously, and have trouble having fun.
  10. We have developed our own compulsive behaviors, such as overeating, compulsive spending, workaholism, or addiction to prescription medications or alcohol.
  11. We have become addicted to drama. We feel bored if we don’t have a crisis in our lives, someone else’s problem to solve, or someone to help.
  12. We are reactors in life rather than actors.

How many of these statements are true for you? Even if you are not presently living with, working with, or spending time with someone with an alcohol or drug abuse problem; and even if you didn’t grow up with an alcoholic or addict in your family; if you recognize yourself in the above statements, you may be a co-dependent.

You can benefit from attending Al-Anon (www.ncwsa.org), or groups like Codependents Anonymous (www.codependents.org), or Adult Children of Alcoholics (www.adultchildren.org). You may also benefit from individual counseling.


 
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